Monday, September 14, 2009
HEART BABIES AND Q&A - UPDATED
I am working on a couple of changes for my blog. I currently have a "heart friends" area on the right sidebar. This list can go on and on.. I have really slacked with my blog lately and since I have been blogging more the past few days it reminds me of how much I miss it. So, I am updating a few different things. First, I will be updating my heart friends list.. but, because there really are so many that list could go on forever. So I have decided I will be adding a link over there that says heart friends, once you click there you will then see several heart babies. On this page, I would like to have a picture of the baby or child as well. And possibly what their heart condition is called. I think this will be a great way for heart moms to connect to other heart moms. I cannot tell you how many times before surgery that I have searched day and night for other heart moms.. just wanting to ask them questions and pray for their sweet children as well (and still do). Because not everyone has a prayer button, I am asking for a picture of your child, their name, and their heart condition. If you are a heart mom, you can email me at crystal525@live.com with those 3 things and I will get them added. If you are not a heart mom, but know one and would like to have them placed on this page.. please get with the heart mom you know and have them contact me. I rather not post pictures unless the mom or dad contacts me with their approval. I will update you all once I have this set up. Until then, feel free to start sending me this info!!!
I am working on a couple of other things and I will post updates on these as I get there.
Also, I have received so many questions since I have had my blog. I have never posted a question and answer post so I have decided, I will do just that. If you have any questions.. about anything at all (does not have to be heart related, or it can) email me at crystal525@live.com or leave a comment with your question. The most common question I get is, "How did you and your husband come up with Bentley's name" Good one, because it is so unique.. and I will tell you right now, definitely not because of the car. That car is not even in our vocabulary. Yes, they are nice.. but not something we would ever be able to afford.. therefore it does not even exist to us. I will answer that question in the Q&A post. I will wait probably a week or so before I do this so I can be sure to get all of your questions. Ask away!!!
Friday, June 12, 2009
WHO WOULD HAVE EVER THOUGHT

Bentley had excessive crying and spit up with ALL formula except for this one. With Similac Alimentum, she was a happy baby with a little spit up.. well after her heart surgery (a little over 3 weeks ago) we noticed that she never once spit up.. when she normally does just a little. So a few days ago we thought we would try Similac Advance again... and who would have ever thought that her heart would have been connected to this excessive crying/spitting up/formula issue. Bentley is now back on Similac Advance and doing perfectly!!! YAY!!!
Now for those of you that have to use this formula like we did.. know just how expensive this stuff cost. Bentley would only take the ready to feed which is even more. But I do want to let you know that some health insurances cover a portion of the cost. Ours refused, we even fought it because of Bentley's heart condition.. she did medically need this.. her pediatrician even fought the denial.. but they still refused. So we gave up. But if you have to use Alimentum, I would defintely give your health insurance a call, it would be worth a try!!
Thursday, June 4, 2009
CATCH UP POST 2
A very dear blog friend Kristin and her family were so thoughtful and generous to give our family tickets to the Houston Astros baseball game while we were in town for Bentley's surgery, so the kids would have something to do other than hang out around the hospital the whole time. My parents took Bryson and Brenna while Ryan and I stayed by Bentley's side. The kids had a blast! So much fun.. I heard about it for days!!! Here are a few pictures my parents took while at the game.
Not sure exactly where this was taken...Their ride to the game..
Thank you so much Kristin. I cannot even tell you how much we appreciate you and your family doing this for us. In school Bryson has to keep a daily journal... so I had him continue it while we were in Houston.. and he managed to mention the Astros game every day... like I said before he LOVES his sports!
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
CATCH UP POST 1
Catch up time... here are several pictures from the day before Bentley's surgery. This is the day that we arrived to the hospital for lots of testing and then being admitted.
Mommy.. Daddy.. & Bentley.. loving!
Checking things out...
Little bitty legs.. and our favorite zebra from Grandma Armer in Kansas. (Thank you Grandma Armer!)
Yes, we can stand up even with an IV in our foot and an overload of tape, card board, and lots of plastic stuff.
Thursday, May 28, 2009
APPOINTMENTS, PICTURES, & OLD POST
So I have had a couple of emails informing me my "discharged" post is not working.. some are able to open it, just not see anything.. so I am posting it again in case you missed it.. you can read it below. What a special day it was for our family!!! I have a lot more pictures to post but my camera's battery is dead, and to be honest I haven't a clue where the charger is at. So count on one LONG post of pictures from this past couple of weeks coming soon (once we get home). As for any updates.. Bentley's raffle drawing was tonight and it was a HUGE succes. I haven't seen any pictures yet, but once I get them I will post all about it.. we wish we could have been there but we are so grateful for all of our family and friends that took time out to be there to support Bentley even when we couldn't. More on that later. So what's miss Bentley up to.. well the girl is bored.. we have did anything and everything and she just wants her home. There truly is no place like home. We have bought more toys.. and went for a walk/stroll today. She loved that. Not even a mile down the road there is a beautiful park.. it's just a small area with beautiful trees and fountains.. there was no one there so we walked around there for a bit. And it was a nice and peaceful. I will be posting these pictures when we get back home too. Ok, so I have so many pictures to post it really might take a week long of post to catch up. ha. But they are so worth it. Talked to Bryson and Brenna again tonight.. Brenna had a tball game and Bryson hung out with his friends at the game. Ahhhh, I remember those days when I was little.. they are growing so fast (tear).
I know my post are a little spacey right now.. but I promise starting tomorrow.. I will do better.
Here is the "discharged" post if you had problems viewing it.
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A lot has happened in the last two days. As you have probably read, the only thing we were waiting on was for Bentley to gain weight and keep her meds down so they could take the IV out. That was yesterday morning.. later yesterday when the doctors made their rounds.. they informed us that the fluid around Bentley's heart and lungs are GONE! Therefore, she no longer needed medicine for that. The only other medicine she was taking was a stool softner which her body resolved on it's own. And she quit taking her pain medicine on Friday.. yes, that is right.. major open heart surgery (bypass machine and all) on Wednesday and off pain medicines Friday evening. They could have continued giving this to her through IV, but she did not need it. She showed no signed of pain what so ever. As you can see in the pictures she was happy as always. So back to the update.. fluid gone means no meds. Problem one.. solved! As far as the weight gain goes.. last night at midnight she weighed more.. earlier yesterday they did say she would need to gain weight for 2 more days, but HER doctor gets the last word.. not the floor doctor. He is not concerned about the weight at this point. He thinks everything looks great and could't be better. He even said.. no reason to wait 7 days for follow up.. we will be going to her follow up this Friday. YEAHH!! Then we will head home. I know it seems like everything is moving so fast, and sometimes it does not happen this quick, but it does sometimes.. and in our case there is just no reason to be there when she is ready to go. Bentley is so ready to be out of there, she cannot get any sleep there, at all! So we are relieved to be in the hotel.. where she can rest and recover even more. And if you were wondering what ever happen with the medicine issue.. the doctors seem to believe that Bentley was making herself vomit. As soon as the medicine hit her tastebud she would gag and vomit. They did say older kids do this all the time, but little ones like Bentley do not.. so we were clueless at first. But after becoming quite creative in giving her medicine to her this is what they have concluded. We are extremely happy with the result of everything.. surgery, progress, doctors (all so amazing), nurses (some better than others), and such a great hospital. For those of you that are wondering who did the surgery.. it was Dr. Fraser at Texas Children's. I do not have enough words to thank this man. He is brilliant and God saves lives through his hands. I haven't said anything about Bentley's incision from her surgery.. you can see a little peaking out of her shirts in her pictures but you can't really see it. You are really seeing tape and medicine (to keep it clean) over the incision. I cannot believe how small it is.. I was in shock. I was really expecting it to look so bad, but it is tiny. So impressed!!!
As a lot of you know, Bentley is a very active baby.. she has been extremely bored the past few days. We finally discovered these wagons they let you pull the kids around in, we were all for it. Daddy pulled her around while mommy took pictures.. tons and tons of pictures. She loved it! The girl was turning heads.. she is wearing the cute leg warmers and bow from another heart mommy, Shannon. We love them!!!

Hope I covered the latest updates in this post. Everything is happening so fast and I am so short on sleep... I'm just not thinking clearly. So if there is anything you are wondering just ask in a comment and I'll post about it next time maybe.
We couldn't be happier right now.. well other than being with Bryson and Brenna too. But about the surgery week.. we really are in awe of everything about it. It all happened so SLOW, yet at the same time it went by so FAST! We are just so grateful with the results of everything. It was tough, extremely tough. Would never want to go through anything like this.. but it was so amazing to feel God so close to us. I mean really.. We have never been more strong. The feeling is really indescribable.. all I can say is He was with us.
I owe so much to all of you. We are so grateful for the prayers, although we are not in the clear... God has answered so many of your prayers for Bentley. All of your sweet thougts, prayers, and words of encouragement have blown us away. They have kept me going on a daily basis and I will never be able to show you how much that means to me! A couple of you have emailed me about Bentley's bracelets.. I am so sorry I have not responded. I have been reading all of my emails just taking a little longer to respond. You can still buy them.. we have many.. too many. I will email you back soon. Promise!


If you know Bentley personally, you know she DOES NOT like car rides. Therefore she does not like her carseat. Well.. when we were about to leave.. she spoted it beside her and daddy and she made a big leap for the seat. She wanted to be sitting in that car seat more than anything at that very moment. She was ready to get out of that place. Not even 5 minutes after sitting in the car seat this is what she did. Yes, fell alseep. Finally she can rest without being messed with every 4 hours.
A fabulous blog friend Kristin came to the hospital to visit us today only to find we were discharged.. I'm so sorry Kristin, I hate for you to have gone out of your way when we just left. Glad you got to see your cousin. Maybe one day.. =)
And like I said.. if I forgot to mention something.. just ask!
Bryson and Brenna, we MISS and LOVE you both so much!! Glad we got to spend a lot of time together during the week of Bentley's surgery. But now that you two are back home with Nana and Papa.. we are going to miss you both like crazy! This is by far the longest we have ever been away from you, and it's going to be hard for us. Just know we are thinking about you every minute and I know I am driving you nuts with all my phone calls.. but that's not going to stop!! Love you!!! =)
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
HOTEL
TOMORROW
Our close friends Brittany and Justin put together one amazing raffle for Bentley's medical fund. She called this morning and ask that I post this here before it ends tomorrow. You can find all the details on her blog by clicking here.. below are small details and just a few of the amazing prizes you could win.
Starting Tuesday May 12th, Ending Thursday May 28th. A drawing will be held on Thursday May 28th @ 7:00pm at La Fiesta by friends & family.
(Need not to be present to win.)
$1 each or 6 for $5 Raffle Prizes:
* $1,000.00 area rug – donated by Brazos Valley Carpet OneOne
* Year Lawn Service – donated by Michael's Lawn Services (mow/weed eat within 30 mile radius & less than 1 acre.. basic lawn service)
* Cut – Color – Style – donated by Leslie Hancock @ The Beauty Shop
* 1 Hour Massage – donated by NuGenesis Medical Spa
* Southern Living – donated by Theresa Meyers
* Double Stranded Cross Necklace value $68.00 – donated by Brittany Mahan @ http://www.stonedup.com/
* Smirnoff Golf Bag – donated by Glazers Wholesale Distributors
* Spray Bed Liner – donated by Mike Brem & James Guyton @ Cen-Tex Custom Bed Liners
* $150 Gift Certificate for Vehicle Window Tinting – donated by Cen-Tex Tint
* $50 Gift Certificate to Bush's Chicken – donated by Brian Tindle & Jon Randall
* 1 Vehicle Window Tinting – donated by Bobby @ Pickup Outfitters
* 1 Vehicle Window Tinting – donated by Bobby @ Pickup Outfitters
* 1 Vehicle Window Tinting – donated by Bobby @ Pickup Outfitters
* 1 Vehicle Window Tinting – donated by Bobby @ Pickup Outfitters
* 1 Vehicle Window Tinting – donated by Bobby @ Pickup Outfitters
* $250 Towards Wood Fence Staining – donated by Brad Watson
* 3 Month Membership To Gym X – donated by Gym X Manager JR Pena
* 6 Seven Day Free Pass to Gym X – donate by Gym X Manager JR Pena
* Gift Certificate for a Spa Manicure – donated by La Bella Visage
* $25 Gift Certificate to Comet Cleaners – donated by Alison Brown @ 1411 N Valley Mills
* $65 Gift Certificate (eye exam) to Lone Star Family Vision – donated by Lone Star Family Vision
* One free Jump Session (10 Passes) – donated by Jumping Party in Woodway
* New Patient Exam plus X Rays $75 Value – donated by Castle Dental
* Assorted Basket of Restraunt Gift Cards to (Double Dave's Pizza - El Chico – BrazosSteakhouse – Outback) Total Value $90.00
* Redkin Hair Product Basket - donated by Design Team
* Cut & Style - donated by Erin Ondrej @ Design Team
* Cut & Style - donated by Candice Harmon @ Design Team
* 6 Bucky Covington Concert Tickets
* 1 $25 Sams Gift Card
* 1 $25 Sams Gift Card
* 10 movie passes to Starplex Movie Theater
* and MORE!
Thank you so much to all who donated to make this raffle possible and Brittany and Justin for doing so much for our family! And to all who purchase tickets to make this raffle a success! Blessings!
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
DISCHARGED

Hope I covered the latest updates in this post. Everything is happening so fast and I am so short on sleep... I'm just not thinking clearly. So if there is anything you are wondering just ask in a comment and I'll post about it next time maybe.
We couldn't be happier right now.. well other than being with Bryson and Brenna too. But about the surgery week.. we really are in awe of everything about it. It all happened so SLOW, yet at the same time it went by so FAST! We are just so grateful with the results of everything. It was tough, extremely tough. Would never want to go through anything like this.. but it was so amazing to feel God so close to us. I mean really.. We have never been more strong. The feeling is really indescribable.. all I can say is He was with us.
I owe so much to all of you. We are so grateful for the prayers, although we are not in the clear... God has answered so many of your prayers for Bentley. All of your sweet thougts, prayers, and words of encouragement have blown us away. They have kept me going on a daily basis and I will never be able to show you how much that means to me! A couple of you have emailed me about Bentley's bracelets.. I am so sorry I have not responded. I have been reading all of my emails just taking a little longer to respond. You can still buy them.. we have many.. too many. I will email you back soon. Promise!


If you know Bentley personally, you know she DOES NOT like car rides. Therefore she does not like her carseat. Well.. when we were about to leave.. she spoted it beside her and daddy and she made a big leap for the seat. She wanted to be sitting in that car seat more than anything at that very moment. She was ready to get out of that place. Not even 5 minutes after sitting in the car seat this is what she did. Yes, fell alseep. Finally she can rest without being messed with every 4 hours.
A fabulous blog friend Kristin came to the hospital to visit us today only to find we were discharged.. I'm so sorry Kristin, I hate for you to have gone out of your way when we just left. Glad you got to see your cousin. Maybe one day.. =)
And like I said.. if I forgot to mention something.. just ask!
Bryson and Brenna, we MISS and LOVE you both so much!! Glad we got to spend a lot of time together during the week of Bentley's surgery. But now that you two are back home with Nana and Papa.. we are going to miss you both like crazy! This is by far the longest we have ever been away from you, and it's going to be hard for us. Just know we are thinking about you every minute and I know I am driving you nuts with all my phone calls.. but that's not going to stop!! Love you!!! =)
GUESS WHAT!!!
What is Bentley doing right now? Bentley is sitting in the hotel room with her mommy and daddy!!!!! That's right, we were discharged from the hospital today! Although her heart journey is far from over.. in fact, it will never be over.. once she has completely recovered we will have regular cardiology visits yearly to make sure everything is working good. BUT the hardest part of the journey is now behind us. We will "live" in this hotel room until her follow up from the hospital and then return home.
I know I said this last night.. but tonight either I will update with all the AMAZING details about yesterday and today or I will see if Brittany has time. SOMEONE will post tonight and let you know all the updates and why we were unexpectedly discharged and GREAT news. Oh and I have some pictures that are too cute for words.. yesterday we took Bentley for a ride in a wagon around the heart floor at the hospital. She loved it, and I have the pictures to prove it. Will post them tonight and some from today.
Ryan and I sit here in AWE of how blessed we are.. and the strength that God gave us during this past week. For the past 9 months I was so scared of how I would act during this surgery and hospital visit.. but we felt Him there with us the WHOLE time and gave us the strength to be strong for Bryson, Brenna, and Bentley.
Bryson and Brenna are now back home with grandparents. They will stay with them until we return home. My heart breaks, we have never been apart from them. This is hard.. and I know it will only get worse. Bryson is even playing a baseball game as I type (tear!). But we will be home soon and I am going to give them the BIGGEST hug ever!!!
So the details will come tonight.. I just had to let everyone know we were OUT of the hospital. We now sit here and continue to recover...
Again and again, thank you all so much for the prayers and support!!!
Monday, May 25, 2009
UPDATE
BIG HUGE thanks to Brittany for helping me out with the last two post. She will be posting for me again this evening (I think). Bentley is doing absolutely AMAZING. I know that the last post is not showing up in the dashboard (for some).. so if you did not read the last post go here to catch up.. it was a GREAT update with LOTS of pictures!
What's going on now... well Bentley is still doing wonderfully. In fact, she medically IS ready to be discharged.. but since we are having a couple of problems with vomiting.. we must wait until this is under control. So in order for us to be discharged, she will have to gain weight 2 days in a row and take her medicine and keep it down. Once these are achieved we will then move to a nearby hotel until her follow up and they release her to go home (which is 7 days after we leave the hospital). PRAISE GOD for such a healthy recovery from her heart surgery!
Expect one more update tonight.. with pictures!! Oh, and today is our anniversary (7 years).. and what a wonderful seven years it has been! We are abundantly blessed! Love you babe!!!
Thank you so much for all your prayers. They ARE working!
UPDATE
BIG HUGE thanks to Brittany for helping me out with the last two. She will be posting again this evening (I think)because we have our hands full right now. Bentley is doing absolutley AMAZING. I know that the last post is not showing up in the dashboard (for some).. so if you did not read the last post go here to catch up.. it was a GREAT update!
What's going on now... well Bentley is still doing wonderfully. In fact, she medically is ready to be discharged.. but since we are having a couple of problems with keeping milk down and meds.. we must wait until this is under control. So in order for us to be discharged, she will have to gain weight 2 days in a row and take her medicine and keep it down. Once these are acheived we will them move to a nearby hotel until her follow up and they release her to go home (which is 7 days). PRAISE GOD for such a healthy recovery from her heart surgery!
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Little Munchkin...
The "B" babies!Ok ok. Are ya'll ready for todays post? I have looked forward to posting this all day. This has been another FABULOUS day for Miss. Bentley. She has been so happy and active, she is starting to act like her normal little self again. She is fighting momma with her naps (which is normal) haha. She is just way to busy to be still and take a nap. She is ready to get up and go!! She is getting very bored with the toys she has up there, she is ready to get down crawl and pull up. All the things she cannot do right now. Poor punkin is now use to all the hospital staff. As they come in, she turns and stares them down just waiting to see what they are going to do to her next. They did figure out what has been causing the vomiting. It was caused from the oral medications. It doesn't make sense because she is able to keep down her formula and pedialyte just fine. Its when she takes the medicine it all comes right back up. We are not talking about a little spit up, its vomiting. There is one medication in particular that she HAS to have, and that is the one for the fluid building up on her heart and lungs. She hasn't been able to keep it down so yesterday they had to give it through IV...they do not want to keep her on an IV since she is doing so well they want her off to prepare her to go home. They are still working on a solution to this problem. She MUST take this medicine for the fluid!! We do NOT want them to have to drain it surgically. NO MORE INVASIVE STUFF....PLEASE! So overall mommy and daddy say it has been a really good day, so far everyday they get better news! Please keep the prayers coming. Bryson and Brenna has spent the day with their grandparents at their hotel swimming. Everyone is so anxious to get back home, and back to the normal routine. Please continue to pray for our baby angel, and her sweet family. They are definitely working. Thank you for all your support it really means a lot.
Love and Hugs,
Britt ;)
Bentley getting bored with her toys...
So PRECIOUS!!
"WHERE'S BENTLEY?!!"
PEEK A BOO HERE I AM!!!
Ok mommy I think I'm ready for that nap now..haha!Saturday, May 23, 2009
New Day..Great Progress!

Hi everyone! This is Brittany, Crystal's best friend. Bentley has been doing tons better today. The first picture that I am posting is from yesterday, but all of the others are from today. You can tell the HUGE difference in yesterday and today. Her fever has been up and down, but as of right now it has broke. She has had problems keeping things down as of last night and this mornig which caused her to get dehydrated, so they had to put in another IV. Right now so far so good, everything is staying down. Praise God! They did get her X Rays back, and found out that there is slight fluid around her heart and her lungs. Due to this, they have increased her medicine to get this under control. Please pray for this medicine to work. There will be other actions they will have to take if it does not clear up. She has been a HAPPY girl today! Mommy says they have had a day full of smiles and ALMOST a few laughs, she has been a busy bee. Playing with anything and everything!! Papaw (Crystal's Dad) drove Bryson home this afternoon so he could play baseball with his team. Which they WON (WOO HOO) and will now be going to city tournament! Crystal and Ryan are so very proud of this boy. They NEVER miss a game I know it's killing them to not be there. Bryson and Papaw are now heading back to Houston, please pray for them a safe trip home. And Nana (Crystal's Mom) and Brenna stayed in Houston today, to spend the day with Crystal, Ryan, and Bentley. Please pray that everything only gets better. And for another wonderful happy day tomorrow.



OMG I just want to squeeze her to pieces! I love it!Love and Hugs
Brittany ;)


















